Helpful Information For Missionary Moms
1 Year or 9 Months (Hump Day)

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Note 1:  100 Days In The Field
Note 2:  Camel
Note 3:  Camel Cookies
Note 4:  Camel Picture
Note 5:  Customize
Note 6:  Favorite Memories
Note 7:  Half Way Halves
 Note 8:  More To Do
Note 9:  No Regret
Note 10:  Our Choice
Note 11:  Poems For Bump Hump Jump Slump Days
Note 12:  Posterize Everyone
Note 13:  Seasoned Missionary
Note 14:  Send A Camel
Note 15:  Shirted Camel
Note 1:  100 Days In The Field

I know, 100 days isn't 9 months or 1 year, but it is a milestone, in a small way, so I wanted to share this idea for any new MM's who may be looking for a care package for their missionary close to reaching their first 100 days.

Our Elder is close to reaching his first 100 days in Florida so we put together a silly little 100 day care package and will mail it off this week. We included baggies with each of the smaller items and made sure we counted out 100 of each item. (For the larger items we did not give him 100 of each ie: toothpaste, peanut butter, scripture markers music cd. etc.).

On the outside of each item or baggie we attached a little typed card with the silly saying. The Poem was sitting on the very top of the box, so when he opens his package he will get the 100 day theme idea. Below the poem were the filled baggies/treat bags.

100 Days in Florida!
One hundred days of teaching, testifying and prayer
One hundred days of laughing, sightseeing, and fun!
One hundred days to work & play,
Aren't You the lucky one?

100 day Floridian Celebration Care Package Ideas:

  • Crackers - 100 days already? That "cracks" us up! The time is going so fast...make the most of it!
  • Q-tips - Here's a tip..."Work Hard, Do your Best, and the Lord will take care of the rest!"
  • Box of Zip Lock Bags - You've got Missionary work in the bag! No leaks here with this Greenie!
  • Smarties Candy - 100 days down...he's starting to be a smartie!
  • Package of Gum - Hey there Gumshoe! 100 days? So stick with what's working!!
  • 100 Quarters - Here's to the next 100 loads of laundry you'll do! (shipping may be a bit much with this included--you might use dollar bills instead)
  • Music CD of choice - 100 hours of enjoyment are awaiting you! (this may not be appropriate for some missions--know before you send)
  • Mints - The first 100 days are mint to be tough, how did you make it look so easy?
  • Toothpaste - 100 days of brushing- Good for you!
  • 100 pennies - A penny for your thoughts now that your first 100 days are behind you!
  • Pkg. of Starburst Candy - 100 days down and still bursting with enthusiasm!
  • Pkg. of pass along cards - Pass along the Gospel message to the next 100 strangers who cross your path!
  • Scripture Markers- For marking your 100 favorite scriptures!
  • 100 Hugs & Kisses Candy- Here's 100 hugs and kisses to say we love you!!
  • 100 Grand bar - You're worth more than 100 grand to us Elder/Sister
  • Jar of Peanut Butter - 100 days Wow! Remember don't spread yourself too thin! Then we took one family night and wrote down 100 reasons why we love our Missionary. We added this typed up list to his care package!

    Happy Flying!!

    Debbie
    MM To Elder Seth

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  • Note 2:  Camel

    Here's a toy camel at Amazon:

    (Because we are an affiliate of Amazon.com, purchases made of this item will help support LDSMissionaryMoms.com)
    We're not sure what difference there is other than price.

    You may also wish to visit your favorite online store to see what's available there.

    One of our Missionary Moms found this one at Seagull Book and Tape:
    Seagullbook.com

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    Note 3:  Camel Cookies

    You can visit several sites to find cookie-cutters for camel-shaped cookies.

    Here's a couple:

    Victor Trading Company Camel Cookie Cutters

    On this link, there are only a couple. Click on the search tab which is second from the right.
    Orson Gygi Company

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    Note 4:  Camel Picture

    I found a camel picture that is cute to send along with the hump day poem. I wrote on the picture little quotes like "check out those calloused knees", etc.

    Click here to see the picture.

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    Note 5:  Customize

    Besides a stuffed camel that said "you've made it over the hump", I sent the camel analogy that was on the web earlier but looked through magazines, such as The Friend, and anything on the web camel I could find and cut and pasted pictures of camels throughout the analogy. I went to our local copy place and had a "hump day" mug made...found a picture of my son riding a camel at the zoo when he was younger and put the picture on one side and "Hump Day" with his mid-point date just below it, on the other side. Then I went to a thrift shop, found a tie (ugly one) and took it home and zig-zag stitched the tie vertically (right down the center - two rows so I could cut down the middle the whole length) and sent his "half-way" tie for him to wear and the other half for his companion. He seemed to like it.

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    Note 6:  Favorite Memories

    For my son's hump day a few months ago, I made him a book.

    I asked all family members, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and best friends to write him a letter sharing favorite memories, favorite scriptures or thoughts. Then I included pictures of my son with that family member or friend.

    I added pictures of him when he received his call, his farewell, when he left and pictures he sent home of his mission thus far. I included pictures of his missionary companions, mission president(s), and people he has baptized. I was even able to get some letters of friends he has made on his mission, such as other missionaries including his trainer.

    After I put the book together online, I sent it to a publishing company to have it bound. I made two copies, one paper back which I sent to him, and a hard bound copy I kept to give him as a keepsake when he gets home. Basically the book covers the first year of his mission.

    I'm going to put together one for the second year of his mission, too, but I will wait until he comes home so he can have a lot of input.

    The publishing company I used is called Cherished Bound. It is a local company in Utah. I know Costco does them too, for a little less money. It was a very time consuming project, but I am so glad I did it. My son was so excited with it and said it is something he will always treasure. I have a friend who is doing a book for her missionary son too, but she is doing the whole two years in one book. There are lots of options and things you can do. There are actually a lot of companies who will publish books for you.

    I really enjoyed making the book and made a biography book for my mother's 80th birthday (that project took me a lot longer since it spanned 80 years.)

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    Note 7:  Half Way Halves

    Our son has passed his half-way point but we recently talked about how we used to celebrate our kids' "half birthdays" with a half of a cake and all.

    We thought, "We should have sent a package of halves of things like a half of a tee shirt, half of a candy bar, etc. It could really be fun."

    I guess we'll do it for the next two sons who go. Oh, what we DID for his hump package was send a down-sized photo-copy of his scrapbook pages that I had done up to that point with "Happy Hump Day!" on the cover and a toy camel.

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    Note 8:  More To Do

    This is not my story but one that was sent out through the group a year or so ago. I saved it and used it for my son 6 months ago. I found a picture of a camel and put it behind this story which I copied onto vellum. I also sent a toy stuffed camel. I loved this story because it emphasizes what the missionary still needs to do instead of him being halfway through.

    Here's part of that email that circulated in the groups a while ago:

    In Utah it is well known that the one year mark is called Hump Day. I have no clue how that tradition got started but it's been around for many years. Our ward has a little camel that is sent around in a special box to each missionary. I know it has been going for at least 10 years. So this little camel has really traveled the world. Each missionary that receives it is supposed to take out the contents and keep everything but the story and the camel. Then add things to it (like candy) and send it on to the next missionary when it is his hump day, or back home for mom to do. There were 14 missionaries from our ward that were all out at the same time at the time my son left so the camel had to travel really fast from place to place. I thought the story really explained the Hump comparison well. You can read it under the heading Seasoned Missionary on this page.

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    Note 9:  No Regret

    My sister gave me a little poem:

      You are over the hump now you really must hurry
      On your bike, in a car, you must work in a flurry
      Find the honest in heart, you can do it, I bet-
      You must work your hardest so there won't be regret.

    Send: Fresh P-day clothes - sweats, t-shirt, socks, shoes etc

    Another thing I am going to send my son for Hump day is a Family Home Evening kit. I got a little briefcase looking folder and put in our favorite family game - spoons - and a children's activity about little dinosaurs and how they become kind and thoughtful instead of greedy and selfish in their family. I am sending the article by Deann Starkey entitled Four Tips for Family Night from the 2008 December Ensign.

    I am also sending Family Home Evenings by Raymond E. Beckham in the book, How to Help Your Missionary: A Guide for Parents of Missionaries, Including Messages of Inspiration and Encouragement which containes ideas on how to use a Family Home Evening kit.

    To finish the kit I am sending mini markers and a story board on how to tell "the wise man and the foolish man" story with coloring pages too.

    All these things will open the way to teach children and teens, but it also involves the adults along the way.

    It's a bit hard to tell others the specifics of this kit but if it is mentioned that I used a primary talk that was well prepared with visuals and then put in a children's FHE with visuals that worked well in our home it would work for anyone. Rules for the spoons game can be found at WikiHow.com

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    Note 10:  Our Choice

    We chose to not send a specific 'hump day' box after hearing that some missionaries feel it underscores how little time they have left and not what has been accomplished.

    We decided to make up a family box from everyone in the extended family with special homemade goodies and a new little pocket photo album of all the in-laws, outlaws and cousins.

    He was delighted to get it and it made him, as he put it, feel more "family focused as he was teaching his investigators"...

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    Note 11:  Poems For Bump Hump Jump Slump Days

    Poems for ALL the red-letter days of a Missionary's life.

    Bump Day - out 6 months
    Hump Day - out 12 months, halfway through their mission
    Jump Day - out 18 months
    Slump Day - Whenever your missionary is in a slump for any reason.

    Greenie

    As we understand it, a "greenie" you are,
    An experienced missionary you're NOT by far.
    Be not discouraged it won't be long
    Till all of your greenie days are gone.

    Not many more weeks until you can say
    "Oh, I remember that wonderful day
    When a package from home arrived green as could be
    With plentiful surprises all meant for me.
    But now I am seasoned and wise as can be
    All because of hard work, prayer and study."

    Greenie

    You were "green." You were new.
    A missionary who didn't know what to do.
    For a year now you have been growing and changing
    In spirit, mind and body, rearranging.
    You know what to say now,
    how to follow the Spirit's lead.
    You've hit the half-way point.
    You know how to succeed.
    The first year was for you
    to learn and grow and reach.
    This second year is for others,
    Go and do and teach.
    Let them feel your testimony.
    Bear it without fear.
    Be more valiant in your conviction.
    Those with ears will hear.
    Sound your personal battle cry!
    Go forward and boldly fight!
    You've only got a year left!
    Serve with all your might!

    Bump Day

    Bump Day means six months have gone,
    Some have been short and some very long,
    The road has been Bumpy, but you have trudged on.
    You've worked very hard not to go wrong,
    The Spirit whispers, "You're where you belong".

    Hump Day

    You are over the hump now you really must hurry,
    On your bike, In a car, you must work in a flurry.
    Find the honest in heart, you can do it, I bet-
    You must work your hardest so there won't be regret.

    Hump Day

    The Hump
    So you have hit the hump, and half-way through,
    Isn't it great how the Lord protects you.

    We are proud of your work, of your baptisms, and knocks,
    Glad you have found work, but know you wore out your socks.

    So remember all you learned in this very first year,

    You with the Lord have worked hard to get you were you are now,
    So don't let the work slack, and pray as you bow.

    With the help of the Lord you have changed inside out,
    Growing more valiant, stronger, and very stout.

    So strengthen others in this downhill road,
    And don't let it be said that you had to be picked with a goad.
    (see Bible dictionary)

    12 is a wonderful number you know,
    With the Priesthood at 12 you started to grow,

    In love, and in service in righteous desire,
    And now with 12 months don't get midway tired.

    Just keep on converting for the next two years
    Teaching the gospel, (which brings mother her tears)

    About the Savior, the Plan of Salvation,
    And all that transpired with the gospel's restoration.

    Be proud of your growth, your work and your mission,
    And hope for investigators who are willing to listen.

    Teach with the Spirit, and work very hard,
    It is the best of your life, for you're working for the Lord.

    Jump Day (for Sisters)
    Today is your jump day
    Fifteen months you've been out.

    The prices you've paid
    Make you seasoned, no doubt.

    Thoughts of home are cloudy and seem a bit grey,
    While your companion is new and sure likes to play.
    This box we are sending makes your mission more clear,
    Cause it's loaded with love from all of us here.

    The time will fly by now on wings of light,
    You're a valuable instrument in the Lord's sight.
    Upward and On ward, there's no time to waste,
    Because of you-the fruit of life MANY will taste. (1 Nephi 8:12)

    Jump Day (for Elders)
    Today is your jump day
    Eighteen months you've been out.
    The prices you've paid
    Make you seasoned, no doubt.

    Thoughts of home are cloudy and seem a bit gray,
    While your companion is new and sure likes to play.
    This box we are sending makes your mission more clear,
    Cause it's loaded with love from all of us here.

    The time will fly by now on wings of light,
    You're a valuable instrument in the Lord's sight.
    Upward and On ward, there's no time to waste,
    Because of you-the fruit of life MANY will taste. (1 Nephi 8:12)

    Slump Day

    Every so often you'll feel in a slump,
    "Sometimes even tears; in your throat there's a lump.
    Alma recalled the work was not easy
    Even a Liahona would not make it easy. (Alma 37:39-47)

    So pull out the scriptures and in faith read on, (D&C 11:21)
    Withstand every temptation and soon they'll be gone. (Alma 37:33)
    The whole armor of God is waiting for you. (Eph. 6:11)
    Trust in your Savior and He'll pull you through. (2 Nephi 1:23)

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    Note 12:  Posterize Everyone

    When my son's hump day was nearing I was looking for ideas too. I had read a lot of ideas about sending stuffed camels and such but my son had tried to nicely let me know that those kinds of things were just more useless stuff for him to have to either move around with him or give away.

    Then I read this idea and it was tailor-made for him. We made two signs on poster boards. One said "Happy Hump Day" and the other said "We are celebrating Elder ...'s Hump Day!"

    Then for the few weeks before the official day we took the "Happy Hump Day" sign everywhere we went and took pictures of everyone we could find holding the sign. We kept it in the car so we always had it with us. We tried to get people and places that would mean something to him. We took a picture of his siblings holding the sign in front of our house, outside in the swimming pool, and outside of his favorite places to eat out. We took it to his cousin's birthday party and got lots of photos with all the different relatives holding it.

    I even invited over his few friends that are still around and not serving missions (mostly girls) to come over. We took pictures with them holding the sign and eating ice cream in his kitchen, lying on his bed, playing his video games. They were so funny. We even took a couple of them holding their scriptures and reading to each other. We took the sign quading and bowling and to the high school. One day we were running errands and we ran into some local missionaries. We asked them to hold the sign and they gladly obliged.

    It was summertime and we took a quick vacation up to Provo to visit relatives. Our Elder had spent a couple of semesters at BYU before he left for his mission so we visited his favorite places in Provo – including outside the MTC and also the BYU creamery where our picture included us all eating chocolate mint brownies (one of his favorites). There were people he knew and people he didn't know but everyone was holding the sign. Then we put all the pictures in a cheap plastic photo brag book that we got at WalMart.

    The first picture in the book was of the "We are celebrating..." poster and the last photo was of the "Happy Hump Day" poster. In between were all the photos of all the happy people. I was worried that it all might make him homesick but he loved it more than anything else we've done. He said he laughed and cheered and told his companion who all the people were and why we had included the places we did.

    It was a big hit and became an instant treasure. He told us he really "felt the love!"

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    Note 13:  Seasoned Missionary

    THE CAMEL IS THE SYMBOL OF A SEASONED MISSIONARY

    By Cheryl K. Carpenter

    As you come to the one-year mark of your mission, I am sending you this camel to remind you how far you have come, and where you are going.There are many similar characteristics of a great missionary and a camel.

    The first is the "hump". Yes, you have crossed the mark and now are over the hump of the first year. But remember the hump of a camel is used to store food for the long journey. Camels can go for long periods of time without food, but he must store his food in his hump. A Missionary has learned from so many experiences, but a wise Missionary will store the knowledge he has gained, and put it to greater use the second half of his mission.

    Another important symbol, is what the camel does to be prepared to carry his load for his Master. A camel sometimes protests his heavy load, but he drops to knees for his Master, and once started, he patiently carries his load. Asa missionary sometimes the load seems heavy and difficult to carry. But when you drop to your knees and succumb to the Master's will, he will carefully lead you and you can bear the load patiently, and do your Father in Heaven's work as he would have you do. This is why the camel's knees are heavily padded, as a Missionary, your knees are calloused from the many hours of kneeling in prayer.

    The camel has high set eyes, that enable him to see long distances. A Missionary has his eyes set on higher things, he follows the Spirit that enables him to see the Children of God, those who are seeking answers, and he teaches them the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

    The camel has broad, two-toed feet, that keep it from sinking in desert sand. A missionary has a broad knowledge and a firm testimony of the Gospel. This enables him to teach with boldness and stand firm in his testimony. The people you teach do not yet have the blessing of such a sure-foot, but as you teach with love and the Spirit, you will help them gain their own testimony that will help them walk on firmer ground. One that will lead them back to their Father in Heaven.

    So you see, a Missionary has a lot in common with a camel. Put this camel where you can see it often. Dedicate yourself to do as the camel does. Serve your Master well and patiently over the long journey. You have come a long way, there is still much ground to cover. Continue to move forward, serving with love, until your mission is complete and your Father in Heaven will say, "Well done, thou good and faithful servant.

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    Note 14:  Send A Camel

    Instead of a stuffed camel, we sent an animal cracker box full of just camels. We bought two big bags of animal crackers and went through them to put just the camels in the box for our missionary.

    Also, and this is an inside family thing, we put the cracker box inside an empty Camel Cigarette carton (note: This idea is from Alabama where getting empty cigarette cartons is easier than those who live in Utah, Idaho or Arizona) with a note saying "We thought we would send you a box of Camels for your hump day." My son video taped himself opening it and at the end says "Well that's a journal entry!"

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    Note 15:  Shirted Camel

    1. For those that live in Utah or surrounding areas or those that want to order online: When my son was celebrating his hump-day, I looked ALL over for a camel to stick in his package but couldn't find them anywhere. A couple of months ago I was in Seagull Book and Tape and they had a million of them! Ugh! Anyway, I just checked online and they are still selling them. I think they are really cute so if anyone wants one of those, I've pasted the link below to the page where they show them.

    2. Seagull book had a really cute little stuffed camel with a shirt on that said something about "hump day". It was less than $5 and I sent that to my son on his mission.

    The link is no longer availalbe, however, they do have a 'Missionary Camel' and it's on sale now for about 60% off: SeagullBook.com's Camel

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